"The L Word" Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way (TV ... - IMDb

"Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way" is the ninth episode of The L Word season three, airing on March 5, 2006, and featuring storylines focused on Dana’s recovery, Carmen coming out to her family, and Bette's retreat. The episode, directed by Moises Kaufman, features a plotline with Bette at a silent retreat designed to accommodate actress Jennifer Beals' real-life pregnancy. For more details, visit The L Word wiki .