People lose arguments because they let the topic drift. If you’re arguing about the dishes, don't let them bring up "that thing you did three years ago."
Most arguments are framed as Binary (A vs. B). You win by finding Option C. How to Win Every Argument
You force them to do the heavy lifting of explaining their logic, which is often where they will trip up. 3. Steelman Their Argument People lose arguments because they let the topic drift
Use "The Pause." Wait three seconds before responding to a jab. It shows you are thinking, not reacting. 2. Use the Socratic Method How to Win Every Argument
Don't "strawman" (misrepresent) their point to make it look weak. Instead, "steelman" it—restate their argument even better than they did.